Children and Marriage
The Most Important Thing You Can Do For Your Child Is Have A Good Marriage!
You can use most any measure. when you're speaking of 'Success'. You can measure it in fancy homes, Expensive cars or dress., but....the measure of your REAL success is the one you can not spend. It's the way your kids describe YOU when they're speaking to a friend! - Martin Buxbaum
Now you might be thinking, "Why is he writing this? Isn't this the MARRIAGE guy?"
Don't worry; you're not losing your mind. I am the marriage guy.This IS about your MARRIAGE! Let me explain.
You're probably trying your best to be a good parent, right? Think for a moment about all the time, energy, and money you put into your children. You send them to the best schools, help them with their homework, buy them the cutest Sunday clothes, work hard to save for their college education, take them to the best doctors, plan special birthday parties, drive them to baseball practice, and make their favorite dinner.
That's all fine, but make no mistake about it; the MOST IMPORTANT thing you can do for your children is NONE of those things. The most important thing you can do for your children has nothing to do with their education, entertainment, athletic endeavors, or even their physical health. The most important thing YOU can do for your children is to have a GREAT MARRIAGE with your spouse.
It's hard to be a good parent unless you have a good marriage. Why? Because teaching your children how to succeed in love is your MOST IMPORTANT responsibility.
There will be nothing more important in your children's lives than the success of their marriage. (I know you know that.) And who's going to teach them how to love their spouse. You are! But they won't learn it from what you say; they'll learn it from the life you lead...they'll learn it from YOUR marriage.
Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "Who you are speaks so loudly, I can't hear a word you're saying."
Whatever you want your children to achieve in their life, you first have to achieve yourself. If you're struggling in your marriage, it's probably because your parents struggled too. So, who's going to break the cycle? Will YOU be the one to change things for generations to come? Or will your children suffer the same burden? The ball’s in your court.
It's not easy to be what's called a "transition person." but it's doable. YOU can be the "transition person" in your lineage and pave a new path for future generations in your family.
There's nothing better for your children than to be raised amidst the comfort of parents who love each other. And there's nothing more devastating to a young soul than to be the victim of a broken family.
If your children don't see love between you and your spouse, it won't matter where they go to school or how fashionably they dress. But if they witness true love between you and your spouse, you will give them the greatest gift life has to offer.
Be a good parent. Do everything you can to succeed with your marriage.
If you think I can help you with your situation, you might consider joining the Marriage Fitness Tele Boot Camp. It begins September 2. For more info or to register, go to http://www.MarriageMax.com/marriage-tele-boot-camp.asp
If you can't wait until the next boot camp begins or if you don't have 7 weeks to turn things around, then get everything TOMORROW with Marriage Fitness Home-Flex. For more info or to order, go to: http://www.MortFertel.com/home-flex.asp
If you prefer private sessions, I'm available via telephone or for full-day intensive "house calls." For more info about private session, go to: http://www.MortFertel.com/marriage-coaching.asp
I assume at this point you've already listened to Audio Learning Program of Marriage Fitness. If not, go now to http://www.MortFertel.com/audio-program.asp and start listening to this invaluable marriage renewal guide. It'll take you step-by-step to exactly where you're trying to get to in your relationship.
Let me know if you have any questions. I'll do whatever I can to help you.
Be well,
Mort Fertel
Author & Founder of Marriage Fitness
ABOUT MARRIAGE FITNESS
Marriage Fitness is a relationship renewal program designed as an alternative
to marriage counseling. Recent case studies show that it's twice as likely to
successfully save and restore a marriage than traditional counseling. The program
offers a Duo Track for couples and a Lone Ranger Track for people dealing with
an obstinate spouse.
IMPORTANT ADVICE
There is one more important piece of advice I'd like to offer. Do NOT subscribe
your spouse to my email list. If your spouse WANTS to subscribe, and they go to
my web site and put in their name and email address, that's fine. But don't
subscribe them without their permission! It's invasive, manipulative, and they'll
be upset with you (and they will know it was you). If you want to recommend
they subscribe, that MIGHT help (although it might not be a good idea...this is
discussed further in the boot camp). If you want to FORWARD them a sample email,
that MIGHT be okay (again, full analysis discussed in the boot camp). But
whatever you do, don't just subscribe them. It'll make your situation worse.
Furthermore, it's illegal! Emailing someone without their permission is called
SPAM. We all hate it. Please don't be a part of it
ABOUT MORT FERTEL Mort Fertel is a world
authority on the psychology of relationships and has an international
reputation for saving marriages. In addition to working with couples, he
teaches individuals how to single-handedly transform their marital situation.
People from all over the world schedule private tele-sessions with Mort Fertel and seek his counsel by joining the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp. He is the author of Marriage Fitness, the Founder of the Marriage Fitness Center for Relationship Renewal, and the creator of Marriage Fitness Home-Flex, the most comprehensive relationship home learning kit in the world. Over 100,000 people every year subscribe to his e-zine.
Mort Fertel was a featured expert on ABC, NBC, CBS, PBS, and the Fox News Network. He is also a frequent guest on talk radio programs. His breakthrough program, Marriage Fitness, appeared in the New York Times, Chicago Tribune, Los Angeles Times, USA Today, Family Circle, Psychology Today, Ladies Home Journal, Glamour Magazine, Parent & Child Magazine, Philadelphia Inquirer, Library Journal, Women's Health, Denver Post, Orlando Sentinel, Baltimore Sun, and Toronto Sun.
Mort Fertel graduated from
the Wharton School
and the University
of Pennsylvania, was the
CEO of an international non-profit organization, and a former marathon runner.
He lives with his wife and 4 children (including triplets!) in Baltimore,
THE MARRIAGE FITNESS
TELE-BOOT CAMP
7 Weeks to the Marriage You Really Want
http://www.MarriageMax.com/marriage-tele-boot-camp.asp
MARRIAGE FITNESS HOME FLEX
Everything you need to transform your marriage in your hands tomorrow http://www.MortFertel.com/home-flex.asp
1-ON-1 PRIVATE SESSIONS
Phone sessions and full day House Calls available http://www.MortFertel.com/marriage-coaching.asp
MARRIAGE FITNESS AUDIO
LEARNING PROGRAM
The Audio Handbook for Relationship Renewal http://www.MortFertel.com/audio-program.asp
AUDIO TESTIMONIALS
Listen to people talk about how they saved their marriage. http://www.MortFertel.com/tele-audio-testimonials.asp
VIDEO TESTIMONIALS
Watch people as they explain how they did the impossible. http://www.MortFertel.com/video-testimonials.asp
WRITTEN TESTIMONIALS
How to turn your marriage around. Read all about it. http://www.MortFertel.com/success-stories.asp
TV TESTIMONIALS
Watch 2 couples tell their secrets on national TV. http://www.MortFertel.com/national-tv.asp
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